Humans go through various stages of development, acquiring skills, emotional intelligence, and evolving their identities as they mature. However, some stagnate at a particular phase of psychological and emotional development. This condition, known as arrested development, may come about as a result of a range of issues, including unresolved childhood trauma and more. Today, we […]
Emotions are an integral part of the human experience, shaping our perceptions, actions, and relationships. It feels like processing and expressing our emotions should be something that comes easily and naturally. But for some people, it’s not. In fact, the ability to regulate and manage emotions is significantly compromised in many. As a result, it […]
February is Annual Boost Self-Esteem Month. To observe it, Kindness-Compassion-and-Coaching.com is publishing a series of posts about the many aspects of this intriguing subject. If you would like to read the series from the beginning, please start here: Self-Esteem: What You Need to Know and Secrets Revealed. Today’s post covers the important issue of how […]
February is Annual Boost Self-Esteem Month. To observe it, Kindness-Compassion-and-Coaching.com is publishing a series of posts about the many aspects of this intriguing subject. (If you would like to read the series from the beginning, please start with this piece: Self-Esteem: What You Need to Know and Secrets Revealed.) Self-discovery plays a vital role in […]
The prevalence of anxiety and depression among young people has increased dramatically in recent decades. While the reasons behind this trend are complex, one key factor is the early and excessive use of technology. Spending extensive time on devices and social media may expose developing brains to content and comparisons that fuel anxious thoughts and […]
Having a strong support system is essential to all of us. Knowing we have others we can count on in times of trouble, or to share celebrations with, not only helps us to be happier, but enables our personal growth, well-being, and success. Whether you’re looking for emotional support, practical assistance, networking opportunities, or diverse […]
Building and growing a support system is important for personal growth, well-being, and success. However, for people who are insecure or shy, the prospect of meeting new people and building relationships can feel daunting. Let’s talk about how to build a support system, and tips and strategies that can help make it easier for anyone. […]
Having a support system is important. Whether or not we struggle with mental, physical or emotional challenges, having a strong network to rely on is critical to help us navigate life’s ups and downs. All of us need to know we have others to turn to when the going gets difficult, or to celebrate small […]
Lying to your spouse about anything is not good. Lying about money is particularly bad form. It can do long-lasting damage to your relationship, undermine trust, and also impact your ability to meet financial priorities you may have set as a couple. Yet, many will lie, or at least lie by omission, about various aspects […]
Fear of rejection can often hold us back from establishing fulfilling connections and experiencing the joys of healthy relationships. It can also cause anxiety and self-doubt and prevent us from taking risks necessary for personal growth in other aspects of our lives. Through understanding and courage, we can overcome fear of rejection, liberate ourselves from […]
Difficult conversations are an inevitable part of life, whether it’s addressing a conflict with a loved one, discussing sensitive topics at work, or delivering constructive feedback. While these conversations may be challenging, they also offer an opportunity for growth, understanding, and resolution. Today’s post provides a step-by-step guide to help you navigate difficult conversations with […]
Are you in a relationship where your needs rarely come first? Does your partner (or friend or parent) have difficulty empathizing with you or others? Do you know someone who seems to have an over-inflated sense of their own experiences or opinions? If so, it may be time for you to learn more about how […]
Self-doubt is something that affects many of us in some aspect of our lives. For many, our personal confidence falls short in one area critical to happiness and fulfillment: relationships. Our self-doubt can undermine our initiative, thoughts and behaviors, leading to negative outcomes. Fortunately, there are strategies that can help us overcome self-doubt in relationships […]
Hyper-independence, the excessive reliance on ourselves and aversion to relying on others in relationships, can have a profound impact on our ability to form deep connections and experience emotional intimacy. Understanding the causes of hyper-independence can help us develop empathy and compassion for ourselves and others as we navigate the complexities of relationships. Let’s discuss […]
Hyper-independence, characterized by an excessive need to be self-reliant and an aversion to seeking help or support from others, can be deeply connected to experiences of trauma. Because traumatic events can disrupt our sense of safety, trust, and connection, they can lead us to a strong desire to rely solely on ourselves for protection. This […]
Divorce is an emotionally challenging experience. It signifies not just the end of a marriage but also the upheaval of the life you’ve known. During this turbulent period, it’s essential to manage your mental health effectively. Read on for five essential tips to help you manage your mental health during divorce. How to Manage Mental […]
Whether it’s in our family, community, or society at large, there are always models of behavior, appearance, or achievement that are regarded as the epitome of success. The goal or ideal that we all should strive for. It seems like a good thing, or at least harmless, when we first think about it. Why shouldn’t […]
Regret is a powerful emotion that can weigh heavily on our hearts and minds. As we enter mid-life and beyond, it becomes increasingly frequent that we reflect on our past choices and wonder about what could have been. However, living a life filled with regret is not conducive to personal growth and happiness. Let’s discuss […]
Relationships are a critical aspect of our lives, providing us with love, support, and a sense of belonging. Our need for healthy partnerships is so great that we can experience the desire for connection as an almost physical craving. Despite this deep-seated need, we can often behave in ways that undermine our most precious relationships. […]
Whether we feel it when a relationship fails, when we bungle a job interview, or even when we feel we’ve been snubbed socially, the experience of rejection is never easy. Sometimes, it can be quite difficult to bear, and even humiliating. As a result, it’s not surprising that fear of rejection is very common, and […]
Hosting the best Friendsgiving involves planning, creativity, and thoughtfulness. The goal is to create a warm and inviting atmosphere that allows everyone to bond and enjoy each other’s company. Today’s article focuses on suggestions for how to ensure that your Friendsgiving celebration is a memorable and enjoyable event for all. How to Create the Best […]
Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) can impact all aspects of a person’s life, including work, relationships, and overall well-being. While some with ADHD are able to manage their symptoms with self-help strategies, there may come a point where seeking professional help becomes necessary. Recognizing the signs that it’s time to seek help for ADHD is […]
In life, there are many times when we want or need something from others. Perhaps it’s a favor or getting someone else to consider compromise. Other times, it can be something more significant – a negotiation on a home sale, or an important job promotion. In these cases, and many more, knowing how to negotiate […]
Emotional wellness is a key component of overall well-being, impacting our mental health, relationships, and quality of life. It involves understanding, acknowledging, and effectively managing our emotions. By nurturing our emotional well-being, we can enhance resilience, reduce stress, and cultivate healthier connections with ourselves and others. There are five key aspects of emotional wellness. Let’s […]
In relationships, striking a balance between independence and interdependence can be a challenging task. While independence is essential for personal growth and self-sufficiency, hyper-independence can create barriers and hinder the development of healthy and meaningful connections with others. This hyper-independence may prevent intimacy and closeness in our relationships. Read on to learn more about effective […]
In some relationships, one partner may exhibit controlling behavior that can have a detrimental impact on the dynamic and the well-being of both people involved. Understanding what causes a person to become overly controlling can help shed light on this unhealthy behavior and potentially facilitate paths towards change and growth. What Makes a Person Overly […]
Having a controlling spouse can be emotionally draining and challenging. And it can also have a serious detrimental impact on both our mental and physical health. So – if you believe your spouse or partner is overly controlling, it is essential to deal with the issue. It’s not easy, but it is possible. And it’s […]
In a healthy relationship, both partners should feel equal, respected, and free to express themselves. However, in some cases, one partner may exhibit controlling behavior that can have a detrimental impact on the relationship and the well-being of the other person involved. Living with a controlling spouse can be challenging and emotionally draining. It is […]
In a healthy relationship, it is critical for partners to strike a balance between intimacy and personal space. However, it is not unusual for one partner to feel overwhelmed by too much togetherness. This can lead to feelings of resentment, frustration, or even the desire to withdraw. This is just one of many reasons why […]
Emotional abuse can leave deep scars on a person’s psyche, affecting self-esteem, trust, and overall well-being. The process that allows us to recover from emotional abuse may be challenging, but it is very possible to rebuild your life and regain your power with the right support and mindset. Recognize Emotional Abuse The first step on […]
