Indulging in what we refer to as “guilty pleasures” is often accompanied by feelings of shame and remorse. We’re conditioned to believe that such indulgences are inherently wrong or frivolous. It’s time to challenge this notion and enjoy our guilty pleasures without guilt. And just focus on the pleasure.
Occasional “guilty pleasures” are necessary, and it’s important, if not absolutely essential to prioritize self-care and happiness to experience well-being to the fullest.
The Importance of Guilty Pleasures
When we indulge in activities that bring us peace or pleasure, we enjoy a temporary escape from our daily routines and responsibilities.
They allow us to relax and unwind and experience joy and satisfaction.
Whether it’s binge-watching our favorite TV shows, enjoying some ice cream or dessert, spending a few hours playing video games, laying in the sun, reading a book, taking a trip to a day spa for a massage, or just plain sleeping in, these types of relaxation provide us a much-needed mental and emotional break.
Taking part in activities like this has positive effects on our overall well-being for more reasons than one.
Besides just being plain fun, engaging in things we enjoy releases endorphins, the feel-good hormones that boost our mood and reduce stress.
Giving ourselves permission to indulge can help alleviate anxiety and improve our mental health.
Enjoy Your Pleasures without the G Word
It’s time to break free from the guilt associated with our guilty pleasures. Here are some strategies to help do this:
1. Self-Acceptance
Recognize that it’s perfectly normal to do things that bring us pleasure!
Everyone has unique preferences and interests, and there’s no need to conform to societal expectations.
Accept yourself and your choices without judgment.
2. Prioritize Self-Care
We all need to make self-care a priority in our lives.
Activities that bring us pleasure, when enjoyed in moderation, are a form of self-care.
Allow yourself time to participate in activities that bring you happiness and relaxation.
3. Remove the Label of Guilty Pleasures
Avoid labeling things that bring you pleasure as “guilty.”
By removing the negative connotation, you can reframe them as simply “pleasures.”
This shift in mindset can help you enjoy them without unnecessary guilt.
Prioritizing Guilty Pleasures and Happiness
In a world filled with constant pressure and expectations, it’s important to prioritize our own happiness and well-being.
Allowing ourselves occasional “guilty pleasures” is one way to practice self-care and foster a positive mindset.
By giving ourselves permission to enjoy activities that bring help us relax and unwind, we reduce stress, improve our mental health, and enhance our overall life satisfaction.
We should not associate guilt with things that bring us joy.
These so called “guilty pleasures” play an essential role in our lives by providing a much-needed escape and contributing to our overall well-being.
So, let’s all enjoy them to the fullest – without shame.
What is your favorite “guilty pleasure”? Please share what you enjoy most in the comments.
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Joan Senio is the founder of KindCompassCoach. Her career includes 20+ years as a private sector corporate executive and 15 years as a consultant. The common thread through her professional life has been a commitment to compassionate coaching and leadership, including mentoring early and mid-career professionals as well as current and future executives and leaders. KindCompassCoach articles are backed by research and include facts and advice from relevant experts. Joan is a member of the International Organization of Life Coaches, serves as a thought-leader for KuelLife.com and is a regular contributor to PsychReg and Sixty and Me.
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One Response
That’s great, Liz! It’s so important for all of us to be comfortable doing the things we need to do to relax and maintain our mental health. Thanks for commenting, too. Joan from KindCompassCoach