It’s that time of year. It’s not quite Hallowe’en and yet we’re receiving all the pre-Black Friday advertisements advising us to ACT NOW! before we miss out on all the bargains that sound (and often may be) too good to be true. Winter holiday music and displays are everywhere and the countdown of shopping days until THE BIG DAY has begun.
The pressure to start shopping now + the pressure to find the perfect gift + the pressure to stay within a reasonable budget can sometimes drain all of the joy out of what is supposed to be “the happiest time of year”.
Whatever the occasion, seeking a gift for a special someone should be a task that helps us to be grateful for all of our friends, family and blessings. Not one that pushes us to the brink of a breakdown.
We owe it to ourselves and each other to keep the focus on peace and love.
But we’re all human, and it’s easy to get caught up in the stress gift giving can also bring.
Let’s keep ourselves in the best frame of mind as we complete all of our gift giving and shopping this year.
Today’s article shares strategies and tips to help!
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Gift Giving and Shopping Strategies
One common sense strategy to start with? Avoid the last-minute rush. Start your gift shopping early!
Begin brainstorming gift ideas in advance and create a list.
Allowing enough time to complete the process and putting boundaries on the time you will spend both create structure, reduce pressure and set the stage for a more enjoyable process.
Other strategies to keep you smiling and relaxed all season long include:
Set Realistic Expectations
Remember that gift-giving is about showing love and appreciation, not about impressing others.
Set realistic expectations for yourself and communicate with your loved ones about gift-giving preferences.
Consider suggesting alternative gift exchange options like Secret Santa or a White Elephant gift exchange to reduce the number of gifts you need to purchase.
Make a Budget
Financial stress can quickly dampen the joy of gift giving.
Determine a realistic budget for your gift shopping and stick to it.
Consider setting a spending limit per person and explore creative and thoughtful gift options that fit within your budget.
Enjoy Gift Giving More Through Online Shopping
On-line shopping is a complete and total game changer! Avoid the chaos of crowded malls by taking advantage of today’s technology and the many bargains available when you comparison shop on the web.
Browse from the comfort of your home and have gifts delivered directly to your doorstep.
Online retailers often offer exclusive deals and free shipping during the holiday season, making it a convenient and stress-free option.
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Prioritize Self-Care
Take care of yourself amidst the hustle and bustle of the holiday season.
Ensure you are getting enough rest, eating well, and engaging in activities that help you relax and recharge.
Schedule breaks during your shopping trips to enjoy a cup of coffee, do some deep breathing exercises, or take a walk to clear your mind.
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Enjoy Gift Giving More: Simplify and Delegate
Don’t be afraid to simplify your gift-giving process.
Consider giving meaningful experiences or homemade gifts that show thoughtfulness and can be more memorable than store-bought items.
Involve loved ones in the process by delegating tasks or opting for group gifts, reducing your individual workload and stress.
Practice Gratitude
Shift your focus from the stress of gift-giving to the joy of expressing gratitude.
Remember to focus on the joy of giving.
Take a moment to appreciate the thoughtfulness of the gifts you receive and the joy that your gifts bring to others.
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Enjoy Gift Giving and Shopping Like Never Before
By implementing these destressing strategies, you can reclaim the joy and spirit of gift giving and shopping.
Above all, practicing gratitude will help you enjoy the process and focus on the true meaning of the generosity and gift giving – celebrating love, joy, and connection with your loved ones.
The most precious gift is the thought you put into lovingly selecting each present.
Thank you as always for reading.
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Joan Senio is the founder of KindCompassCoach. Her career includes 20+ years as a private sector corporate executive and 15 years as a consultant. The common thread through her professional life has been a commitment to compassionate coaching and leadership, including mentoring early and mid-career professionals as well as current and future executives and leaders. KindCompassCoach articles are backed by research and include facts and advice from relevant experts. Joan is a member of the International Organization of Life Coaches, serves as a thought-leader for KuelLife.com and is a regular contributor to PsychReg and Sixty and Me.
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