“Opposites Attract“. It’s an age-old saying about relationships. It seems strange that we would be attracted to people who are so different than us, doesn’t it? Isn’t that just setting us up for failure and unhappiness and chronic challenges and compromises? So, why do opposites attract? Let’s explore why people with different personalities, interests, and […]
Enabling can occur in various contexts, including relationships, and may lead to the continued negative behavior of a partner. When we enable our partner’s negative behavior, we unintentionally perpetuate destructive patterns, hindering personal growth and creating strain in the relationship. If you’re enabling your partner, it’s important to break the cycle to promote healthy communication […]
Enabling behavior is a complex and often misunderstood issue that can have significant impacts on those involved. It occurs when someone unintentionally perpetuates or supports another person’s harmful or negative behavior. This often prevents them from taking responsibility and experiencing natural consequences. While we may recognize enabling behavior in ourselves or others, noticing the behavior […]
Arrested development refers to a condition in which a person’s emotional and psychological growth is hindered or halted during one of the normal stages of maturation. This phenomenon can have profound impacts on a person’s overall well-being and interpersonal relationships. Today’s post focuses on the stages of arrested development and the challenges faced by those […]
Those who experience arrested development (the inability to mature emotionally), can encounter significant struggles as they attempt to navigate adulthood and relationships. Overcoming this challenge requires a proactive approach that involves self-reflection, personal growth, and a commitment to change. There are promising strategies that may support our efforts as we or a loved one work […]
Self-harm can be a difficult and sensitive topic, especially when it involves children. It’s essential to understand it, however, as self-harm in children may have serious consequences, and likely has equally serious underlying causes. If you spend time among young people, it’s important to understand the nature of self-harm in children, signs that it may […]
Self-harm is a potentially dangerous coping mechanism that involves intentional harm to oneself. It can take many forms, including cutting, burning, or scratching oneself, hitting or bruising oneself, or pulling out one’s hair. Self-harm can be a sign of deep emotional distress and should be taken seriously. If you spend time around young people, it […]
As parents and caregivers, it can be heartbreaking to witness self-destructive behaviors in children. These types of behaviors can manifest in various ways, such as self-harm, substance abuse, extreme risk-taking, or engaging in toxic relationships. Understanding the underlying causes and implementing appropriate strategies can help guide children towards healthier coping mechanisms and foster their overall […]
In the humdrum of our everyday routines, it’s easy to become a creature of habit. But shaking things up and trying something new can feel like a refreshing splash of cold water. It’s a great way to improve your mental health and well-being. And it can help also you not only cope better with the […]
Self-destructive behaviors in loved ones can cause tremendous distress and pain in families. Self-destructive habits encompass a wide range of harmful actions, such as substance abuse, self-harm, or reckless behavior that jeopardize one’s well-being. It is both challenging and frustrating to cope when we have a loved one who repeatedly puts themselves at risk. Understanding […]
