The 21st century has brought us so many improved ways to communicate, and so many advances in technology. However, exposure to all this data and images comes with a downside. From magazines to TV ads to social media, we seem to be completely surrounded by people who have “the perfect body”. In the absence of […]
Through self-discovery, we can get to know ourselves better, unlock our true potential and live a meaningful and fulfilling life more closely aligned to our core values and priorities. One of the most powerful self-discovery tools is journaling. Somehow, when we put pen to paper, we are more likely to unleash our thoughts, emotions, and […]
A while ago, I was having a difficult time finding inspiration. Starting the day relatively early was one thing still had the ability to do, as I’m always eager for that first cup of coffee. After that, though, I was regularly losing my way. I knew what had to be done, but I kept dragging […]
Abraham Maslow, humanist psychologist, coined the term self-actualization in the 1950s. It refers to the innate drive that motivates people to reach their full potential and become the best version of themselves. I remember hearing the term in high school, and again in a college psychology class. At the time, I thought, self-actualization sounds like […]
Indecisiveness is a common problem that many of us face. It can be frustrating to feel like we can’t make a decision or that we’re constantly second-guessing ourselves. Let’s explore the reasons why we can sometimes be so indecisive and what we can do to overcome it. The Psychology of Indecisiveness The first step in […]
Personal development is the process of enhancing skills, knowledge, and abilities, and learning new things that help us be more effective in our work and personal life. It is a continuous process that enables us to achieve our full potential. Personal development resources are available to help us improve in many aspects of life, including […]
Emotional blackmail is a form of manipulation that is used to control an individual’s emotions, actions, and behavior. It is a tactic that involves the use of fear, guilt, shame, and obligation to get someone to do something that they may not want to do. Emotional blackmail can come from anyone, including family members, friends, […]
When you need to talk to someone because life issues are overwhelming, you may consider therapy. In traditional therapy, you go in for a session and your therapist talks with you for a certain period. This type of traditional counseling works very well, and it is quite effective. However, on-line therapy is now available almost anywhere. And […]
Overthinking has become a fairly common challenge for many of us. Those of us who tend to overthink are not necessarily flawed individuals – let’s just say we care an awful lot about the choices we make and how they may impact others, or the community, or the world, or the solar system. You get […]
We humans have always had the capacity for worry; however, it seems we’ve entered a stage of our evolution where anxiety, stress, worry, rumination and overthinking of all kinds is much more prevalent among us. In fact, these patterns of intrusive thought are estimated to impact over 6 million Americans, and many others at least […]
KindCompassCoach focuses on personal development and self-discovery with an emphasis in positive psychology, self-compassion and well-being. We provide articles and resources related to positive energy, happiness, and optimism. All our content is written, however, with a profound understanding of something that may seem counter to our focus: Too much of a good thing can have […]
Many of us suffer from chronic anxiety. Those challenged by this condition find themselves in a resting state of high alert. Pretty much always on edge, “waiting for the other shoe to drop,” we jump higher than most at sudden noises. And we spend much of our time worrying or in a state of rumination. It’s […]
We all know what it’s like to have a “meh” day. Nothing really matters. We don’t have the energy to do anything. We’re not sad, but we’re not happy either. It’s a hard feeling to describe – time is passing unremarkably. There’s a tipping point, though, when feeling “meh” turns into a life truly devoid […]
As you know, KindCompassCoach emphasizes positive psychology approaches. We like to focus on motivation, positive thinking, self-compassion and other constructive elements that help build and reinforce our well-being and personal growth. Unfortunately, a comprehensive and realistic approach to personal development also requires we understand the flip side – what has been come to be known […]
Feeling overwhelmed? Some definitions include: “completely submerged”; “feeling frozen, lost, or paralyzed”; or my favorite: “simultaneously exhausted and dejected”. Ouch. Sound familiar? The synonyms to ‘overwhelmed’ probably resonate with most of us, too: feeling beaten, crushed, devastated, disheartened, or humbled. There’s not a perfect word to describe this condition, so let’s just call it having […]
