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How to Spot Signs of Gaslighting: 12 Clear Red Flags and What to Do Next Gaslighting is a form of emotional manipulation that systematically erodes a person’s sense of reality, self-trust, and emotional safety. Recognizing the signs of gaslighting is an important step toward reclaiming your sense of self and beginning to heal from gaslighting […]
Have you ever wondered what happened to that long-lost romance from your past? He or she was the one that got away, leaving you with unanswered questions and a lingering sense of what could have been. Seeking to find closure for a long-lost romance can be painful. But although it may be a challenging and […]
Life coaching can help you gain clarity, set goals, and make positive changes in your life. One of the key aspects of life coaching is asking the right questions to encourage self-reflection and personal growth. There are many potential questions that can be used to jump start the process. Let’s talk about a few specific […]
A friend once said to me, “Regret is a useless emotion.” She may have been right. But regardless of how well regret serves us, it can certainly be powerful. Most of us will experience regret at one time or another. When we do, it can be almost impossible to shake. Our brains go round and […]
Are you feeling unloved? Many of us feel unloved or lonely at some point. In fact, some of us feel that way more often than not. It’s difficult and painful. At times like this, we can sometimes benefit from reading uplifting and empowering quotes. Quotes that may help to remind us of our worth and […]
Most of us can probably relate to what it’s like to deal with someone who stonewalls us. We want to talk; they walk away. If a difficult topic arises, they avoid the issue or distract us with unrelated criticisms. Maybe they just change the subject in an effort to avoid real communication. Unfortunately, this practice […]
How to Overcome Learned Helplessness in Relationships Relationships can be a source of profound joy, growth, and support. However, beneath the surface of seemingly blissful unions, a subtle yet potent dynamic known as learned helplessness can quietly take root, casting a shadow on the vitality of partnerships. Today, we discuss how the learned helplessness theory […]
Relationships are an essential to our happiness and well-being. However, not all relationships are healthy and fulfilling. Some relationships are worse than merely unhealthy – they are downright dangerous and threatening to both our emotional and mental health. Understanding the signs of a toxic relationship is critical, because detecting these issues early makes it much […]
Relationships help us stay connected to the people we care about and provide us with a sense of belonging. However, relationships can also be challenging, especially when it comes to setting healthy boundaries. Boundaries are important, if not essential. They help us establish our needs, expectations, and limits. For the best outcomes, it’s key to […]
Through self-discovery, we can get to know ourselves better, unlock our true potential and live a meaningful and fulfilling life more closely aligned to our core values and priorities. One of the most powerful self-discovery tools is journaling. Somehow, when we put pen to paper, we are more likely to unleash our thoughts, emotions, and […]