As we discussed in 12 Signs of a Codependent Relationship, codependency is a complex and often misunderstood pattern of behavior in relationships where one person relies on another to fulfill their emotional needs and has difficulty functioning independently. Today, we will cover some of the most common causes of codependent relationships and other factors which […]
Codependency is a pattern of dysfunctional behavior in relationships where one person relies on the other to fulfill too many of their emotional needs. This kind of relationship can be challenging and is often very detrimental to our emotional well-being. It can be difficult to recognize codependency in a relationship, especially when you are in […]
Complex Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (CPTSD) is an often-misunderstood condition. Unlike typical PTSD, which is usually caused by a single traumatic incident, Complex PTSD stems from ongoing trauma, such as childhood abuse, domestic violence, or being in a war zone. In all, there are 17 signs of CPTSD to look out for. We will cover each […]
When we wed, we enter a deeply intimate and committed relationship that requires trust, honesty, and open communication. One of the more complex aspects of a healthy partnership can be establishing, navigating, and maintaining healthy boundaries between privacy and secrecy in marriage. Privacy in Marriage: A Cornerstone of Trust Privacy is an essential aspect of […]
The fear of abandonment can grip our hearts and minds, leaving us feeling vulnerable and insecure in relationships. Whether stemming from past trauma or deep-rooted insecurities, overcoming fear of abandonment is possible with self-reflection, self-compassion, and intentional actions. Today, we cover 7 strategies to overcome fear of abandonment. 1. Understand the Root Causes of Fear […]
The fear of abandonment is a psychological phenomenon that can result in deep-seated emotional distress and relationship conflicts. Those who have experienced neglect in childhood or abandonment in past romantic relationships may develop a phobia about being left alone. Let’s discuss some signs of fear of abandonment and explore strategies for managing this challenging emotion. […]
A sound awakens you in the middle of the night. Your think your home is being robbed and feel a burst of adrenalin accompanied by an uncomfortable energy spike. Your senses are heightened and make it difficult or impossible to calm down, sit still, or relax. Once you determine the source of the noise (it […]
Childhood trauma can have a profound impact on a person’s mental and emotional well-being. Although these wounds may remain hidden, they can manifest in various ways, affecting relationships, self-esteem, and overall quality of life. A surprisingly large percentage of the population has experienced trauma of one kind or another. If you suspect that you or […]
Are you a thalassophile? Thalassophiles are lovers of the sea. They feel an especially deep connection to the ocean. In fact, they only feel whole when they are near the beach or water of some kind. They are transfixed by the beauty and power of saltwater. And often seek opportunities to immerse themselves in its […]
Trauma bonding is a psychological phenomenon that occurs in abusive or toxic relationships. It involves a powerful and unhealthy attachment to an abuser, often resulting from a cycle of positive and negative experiences. Bonding of this type may also be referred to as “Stockholm Syndrome.” The dynamics in this syndrome are complex, but by recognizing […]
It’s hard to believe we are already about to begin the month of September! Summer vacation and long days in the sun are soon to become a fond memory. This time of year, it can be especially important to pay attention to our mental health. In fact, for those who suffer from SAD (Seasonal Affective Disorder), […]
We all have days when getting out of the house is a challenge. And for some, especially those who suffer from mental health issues like anxiety, agoraphobia, and PTSD, leaving home is always a struggle. Of course, while the long-term goal is to get out into the world more and challenge the thoughts and feelings […]
Indulging in what we refer to as “guilty pleasures” is often accompanied by feelings of shame and remorse. We’re conditioned to believe that such indulgences are inherently wrong or frivolous. It’s time to challenge this notion and enjoy our guilty pleasures without guilt. And just focus on the pleasure. Occasional “guilty pleasures” are necessary, and […]
Friendships with others (the “family you choose”) are such an important part of our lives. The kindness and support our true friends provide is often essential to our own sense of well-being, comfort, health, and happiness. Given the significant role they can play in our lives, it’s important to choose our friends and friendships wisely. […]
