Fear of abandonment is a complex emotional issue that can greatly impact relationships and overall well-being. This fear stems from deep-seated insecurities and past experiences. Any chance of resolving it requires us to understand its underlying causes. We will cover some of the common root causes of fear of abandonment and also potential strategies to […]
A sound awakens you in the middle of the night. Your think your home is being robbed and feel a burst of adrenalin accompanied by an uncomfortable energy spike. Your senses are heightened and make it difficult or impossible to calm down, sit still, or relax. Once you determine the source of the noise (it […]
Childhood trauma can have a profound impact on a person’s mental and emotional well-being. Although these wounds may remain hidden, they can manifest in various ways, affecting relationships, self-esteem, and overall quality of life. A surprisingly large percentage of the population has experienced trauma of one kind or another. If you suspect that you or […]
Thalassophiles are people who feel most alive by the sea—drawn to the rhythm of waves, the scent of salt air, and the vastness of the horizon. This post explores why the ocean soothes and inspires, how lovers of the sea find meaning through exploration and conservation, and practical ways to deepen your connection—whether through snorkeling, journaling by the shore, or joining beach‑cleanup efforts. If the ocean calls to you, read on to discover what being a thalassophile looks like and how to honor that lifelong bond.
Friends (the “family you choose”) are such an important part of our lives. They help us maintain our emotional health and sense of belonging. And a good friend stands by us when life feels overwhelming and cheers us on when success arrives. Yet it can be hard to tell a keeper from a fair-weather friend. […]
Do you find yourself constantly putting others first, doing more than your share, and feeling exhausted, resentful, or invisible in return? If so, you may be stuck in martyr syndrome: a persistent pattern of self‑sacrifice and people‑pleasing that shows up as chronic over giving, passive resentment, and shrinking boundaries. In this post you’ll learn the […]
Gaslighting is a form of emotional manipulation that systematically erodes a person’s sense of reality, self-trust, and emotional safety. Recognizing the signs of gaslighting is an important step toward reclaiming your sense of self and beginning to heal from gaslighting and broader patterns of narcissistic abuse. Table of Contents What Is Gaslighting? Gaslighting is a […]
Have you ever wondered what happened to that long-lost romance from your past? He or she was the one that got away, leaving you with unanswered questions and a lingering sense of what could have been. Seeking to find closure for a long-lost romance can be painful. But although it may be a challenging and […]
Life coaching can help you gain clarity, set goals, and make positive changes in your life. One of the key aspects of life coaching is asking the right questions to encourage self-reflection and personal growth. There are many potential questions that can be used to jump start the process. Let’s talk about a few specific […]
A friend once said to me, “Regret is a useless emotion.” She may have been right. But regardless of how well regret serves us, it can certainly be powerful. Most of us will experience regret at one time or another. When we do, it can be almost impossible to shake. Our brains go round and […]
